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Last week, we talked about one of the most powerful leadership habits we can develop: slowing down long enough to truly observe. Instead of rushing from one problem to the next, I challenged you to pause, pay attention, and really notice what is happening in your classrooms. When we slow down, we begin to see patterns, recognize strengths, and better understand the "why" behind the challenges we face each day.

But observation isn't the finish line, it's just the beginning.

Once we've taken the time to observe, the next leadership decision is just as important. Do we immediately jump in and tell teachers what they need to do differently, or do we use what we've observed to help them reflect, solve problems, and grow?

I'll be honest, this is something I had to learn. Like many leaders, my first instinct was to fix the problem. After all, that's what leaders do, right? But over the years, I discovered that while correcting may solve today's issue, coaching builds stronger teachers for tomorrow.

This week, we'll explore how shifting from correcting to coaching not only strengthens individual teachers but also creates a team that becomes more confident, more reflective, and less dependent on the leader having all the answers.

Correcting Solves Today's Problem.
Coaching Builds Tomorrow's Teacher.

 As leaders, our natural instinct is to help.

We walk into a classroom, notice something that could be done differently, and immediately begin offering suggestions. We explain what we saw, tell the teacher what should happen next time, and leave believing we've coached them. But have we? Correction certainly has its place. There are times when safety, licensing requirements, or the well-being of children require immediate direction.

However, if every leadership conversation begins with us providing the answer; teachers begin relying on us to solve every problem they encounter. Coaching looks different. Instead of immediately telling teachers what to do, coaching invites them to think. It encourages reflection, builds confidence, and helps teachers develop the decision-making skills they'll need long after the conversation is over. I've learned that my goal as a leader isn't to have all the answers.

My goal is to help others discover them. When leaders coach rather than constantly correct, they're not just improving today's classroom; they're developing stronger educators for tomorrow.

✍🏽Leadership Takeaway: Teachers grow the most when leaders develop their thinking, not just their compliance. Click here for my correction v. coaching reflection.

Coaching Begins by Recognizing Strengths💪🏽

One of the biggest mistakes leaders make is waiting until they see something wrong before having a conversation with a teacher.

Think about that for a moment.

If the only time a teacher hears from you is when something needs to improve, what begins to happen? Over time, they may become nervous when you walk into their classroom. Instead of seeing your visits as opportunities for support, they begin to wonder, "What did I do wrong?" That isn't the kind of leadership culture most of us want to create.

Strong coaching begins long before a difficult conversation ever takes place. It begins by intentionally noticing what teachers are doing well and taking the time to acknowledge it.

As you observe your classrooms, look beyond what needs fixing:

These moments matter.

When leaders consistently recognize specific strengths, they build confidence, trust, and credibility. Teachers begin to understand that their leader sees not only the areas for growth but also the value they bring to the classroom each day. That trust becomes the foundation for future coaching conversations.

There's another benefit to leading this way. Positive feedback helps teachers identify the practices you want them to continue.

When you say,"I noticed how you waited patiently and gave Emma time to solve that problem on her own. That really supported her independence," you're doing more than giving a compliment. You're reinforcing a developmentally appropriate practice and helping that teacher understand why it matters.

The goal isn't simply to make teachers feel good. The goal is to intentionally strengthen the behaviors that create high-quality classrooms.

I've found that teachers are much more open to discussing areas for improvement when they know their leader genuinely notices their strengths.

Coaching doesn't begin with correction; it begins with connection. When teachers feel valued, they become more willing to reflect, take risks, and continue growing professionally.

✍🏽Leadership Takeaway: The strongest coaching conversations begin by helping teachers recognize what they're already doing well. (Challenge yourself before you correct)

Great Leaders When Coaching: Ask More❓Than They Tell

This is where coaching becomes transformational.

When I first became a leader, I thought my job was to have the answers. If a teacher came to me with a problem, I felt responsible for solving it as quickly as possible. Looking back, I realize that while I was solving problems, I wasn't always developing people.

One of the greatest leadership shifts, I made was learning to replace some of my answers with thoughtful questions. Questions naturally slow the conversation down and give teachers the opportunity to reflect, analyze what happened, and think through their own decisions instead of relying on someone else to provide the solution.

For example, imagine observing a classroom transition that didn't go as smoothly as planned. It would be easy to say, "Your transition took too long." While that statement identifies the problem, it doesn't encourage the teacher to think about why it happened.

Instead, try asking, "What did you notice about the children's engagement during that transition?" That simple question shifts the conversation from correction to reflection. It invites the teacher to evaluate their own practice, identify what worked, and consider what they might do differently next time.

That's the power of coaching. Rather than creating teachers who wait for the leader to provide every answer, coaching develops reflective educators who can think critically, solve problems, and continue growing long after the conversation has ended. Every thoughtful question plants a seed of professional growth, helping teachers build the confidence to make strong decisions on their own.

The next time you're preparing to offer a solution, pause for just a moment and ask yourself, "What question could I ask instead?" You may discover that the best coaching doesn't come from having the right answer; it comes from asking the right question.

✍🏽Leadership Takeaway: Questions develop reflective teachers. Answers develop dependent teachers.

As leaders, our role is not simply to identify what needs to change. Our role is to create conditions where people want to grow.

The strongest leaders understand that growth happens through relationships. Teachers need to know that we see their strengths, believe in their abilities, and are committed to helping them become the best educators they can be. When teachers feel supported rather than judged, they become more open to reflection, feedback, and growth.

Coaching doesn't mean avoiding difficult conversations or lowering expectations. It means building trust first, asking thoughtful questions, and helping teachers take ownership of their own professional growth.

Because the goal isn't to create classrooms that only run well when the leader is present. The goal is to build a team of confident educators who can make thoughtful decisions, support one another, and continue growing every day.

Next week, we'll continue this leadership journey by exploring the next step: Building Accountability.

Till Next time,

Jen Sprafka📋

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