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Now that we’ve settled back into the rhythm of the school year, it’s the perfect time to reflect on how we, as early childhood leaders, approach celebrations, whether it’s birthdays, seasonal events, or long-standing program traditions.

In today’s diverse landscape, navigating these moments requires more intentionality than ever. With the growing prevalence of severe allergies, diverse family beliefs, and unique parental preferences, we are challenged to find ways to celebrate that honor both our program’s values and the varied backgrounds of the families we serve.

How do we evolve as leaders to make space for all voices, while still preserving the spirit of celebration and community? How can we turn these moments into opportunities for inclusion, shared joy, and meaningful engagement? These are the questions that help guide us toward creating respectful, thoughtful, and inclusive celebrations throughout the year.

Why Celebrations Matter in Early Childhood

As leaders, it’s essential that we facilitate and involve our teaching teams in these conversations. Changing traditions can be difficult, but it’s a vital step toward growth and inclusion.

🤔Why: Celebrations are more than fun; they reflect what your program values. They shape the emotional climate of your school, build community, and communicate inclusion (or exclusion) to families and staff.

❓How: As a leader, ensure celebrations are aligned with your program’s mission. Ask:

• What message does this celebration send?

• Who is centered and who might be left out?

• Are we celebrating in ways that all children and families can access safely and joyfully?

🎬Leadership in Action: Use these questions to guide reflection with your team and adapt traditions where needed.

🏆Honor the Past, but Lead into the Present

🤔Why: Many early childhood programs have rich traditions. But as your family demographics change, those traditions may no longer serve all families equitably. Holding onto outdated practices can unintentionally exclude or alienate.

❓How: Rather than discarding traditions, evolve them. Invite staff and families into the conversation:

• “This is something we’ve always done, does it still reflect who we are now?”

• “How can we keep the spirit of this tradition while making it more inclusive?”

🎬Leadership in action: Model openness to change and help your team and families see this as a process of growth, not the loss of something familiar.

👂🏽Listen to Families, Don’t Assume

🤔Why: Inclusivity starts with understanding. Every family has their own beliefs, sensitivities, and preferences. Assuming what’s “normal” based on past years can lead to blind spots and hurt feelings.

❓How: Use tools like:

• Family surveys at the start of the year asking about holiday preferences, dietary restrictions, and cultural traditions.

• Informal conversations during drop-off/pick-up.

• Parent advisory groups offer diverse voices input into planning.

🎬Leadership in Action: Even if not all ideas are implemented, the act of listening builds stronger, trusting relationships.

🛟Lead with Safety, Equity, and Accessibility

🤔Why: Allergies, dietary restrictions, religious beliefs, and financial realities all impact how children experience celebrations. If not handled with care, a celebration meant to be joyful can quickly become exclusionary—or dangerous.

❓How:

• Rethink food-centered celebrations by making food optional or offering alternatives.” (e.g., birthday books, special roles, songs).

• Avoid requiring costumes, gifts, or money.

• Offer inclusive alternatives so no child feels “othered” for opting out.

🎬Leadership in Acton: Frame these decisions as creating safe, equitable experiences for all children.

🗣️Communicate With Clarity and Care

🤔Why: Transparency builds trust. Families and staff feel more confident when they understand the “why” behind changes or decisions.

❓How:

• Share your approach to celebrations at the beginning of the year.

• Explain how you're aligning traditions with your values (inclusion, safety, learning).

• Invite dialogue: “We’re working to make celebrations more inclusive—what would be meaningful to your family?”

🎬Leadership in Action: Clarity doesn’t mean having all the answers; it means being honest, intentional, and open. It also helps reduce misunderstandings and anxiety among families.

🩼Supporting Through the Shift

🤔Why: Shifting traditions can be hard for staff, especially those who’ve done things a certain way for years.

❓How:

• Provide professional development

• Create space for team reflection: “What does celebration mean to us?” “Who are we celebrating?”

• Celebrate small wins when staff try new inclusive practices.

🎬Leadership in Action: Lead with empathy. Change is easier when staff feel heard, supported, and involved.

As early childhood leaders, we have the unique responsibility and privilege of shaping how our communities experience connection, culture, and celebration. By leading with intention, we create space for every child and family to feel seen, valued, and safe. Rethinking traditions isn't about letting go of what once was; it's about growing with the communities we serve and honoring them with care.

As you move through the school year, may your celebrations reflect not just your program’s history, but also its hope for the future, rooted in inclusion, guided by empathy, and centered on joy.

Till next time,

Jen Sprafka📋

P.S. I’d love your feedback. What resonated with you? What celebrations are you rethinking this year?” Just hit reply!