Growing a Culture of Gratitude

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As November arrives and Thanksgiving fills our calendars, it’s the perfect time to pause and reflect on gratitude, not just as a seasonal theme, but also as a leadership practice. In early childhood education, gratitude is more than saying “thank you.” It’s about cultivating a mindset of appreciation, noticing small moments of joy, acknowledging effort, and celebrating connections. As leaders, we can model gratitude daily and create spaces where children, teachers, and families feel seen, valued, and thankful. This month, let’s explore how we can make gratitude not just a November focus, but a year-round program ritual.

This week we are going to focus on how you, as a leader, reflect gratitude and put it into action.

Reflecting on Gratitude as Leaders

Gratitude begins with leadership. When we, as leaders, take time to notice and name what’s good, we shift our program’s culture from one of busyness and burnout to one of appreciation and belonging. Gratitude doesn’t just make people feel valued; it fuels motivation, strengthens trust, and builds resilience in our teams.

🪞Begin with Your Own Reflection: Start with yourself. Leadership gratitude starts from the inside out. Ask:

• What am I most grateful for in my work and my team right now?

• What small wins or moments have I overlooked because I was too busy?

Take five quiet minutes at the start or end of your week to jot down what’s going well: a child’s breakthrough moment, a teacher’s creative idea, a family’s kind words.

🤔Why it matters: Leaders who reflect on gratitude develop emotional awareness and perspective. This practice reminds us why we do this work: to nurture joy, growth, and community, and helps us lead with empathy rather than exhaustion.

🎬Leadership in action:

• Keep a “Leadership Gratitude Journal.” Note one thing each day that went right.

• Start your day by silently naming three things you’re grateful for before addressing challenges.

Acknowledge the Strengths of Your Educators

Your team’s resilience, creativity, and compassion are the heartbeat of your program. Expressing gratitude for these qualities strengthens morale and trust.

🎬Leadership in action:

• Be specific when giving thanks. Instead of “Great job today,” try “I appreciate how you comforted that child who was having a hard morning— your calm presence made a difference.”

• Share team gratitude publicly; in newsletters, bulletin boards, or morning huddles.

🤔Why it matters: Recognition is one of the most powerful tools leaders have to reduce burnout. When educators feel seen and appreciated, their sense of purpose grows, and that positivity ripples to the children in their care.

Model Gratitude in Staff Meetings

Set the tone for your team by making gratitude a standing part of your meetings. Begin with a quick “Gratitude Share.” Invite each person to name one moment, person, or success they’re thankful for.

🎬Leadership in Action:

• Use a “Gratitude Stone” or “Thankful Token” to pass around the circle as each person shares.

• Pair gratitude shares with visuals: add sticky notes to a “Wall of Thanks” or digital gratitude board.

• End the meeting with a short reflection: “What went well today?”

🤔Why it matters: Regular gratitude sharing normalizes reflection, positivity, and perspective. It reminds teams that even amid challenges, there are always bright spots worth celebrating.

Encourage Gratitude in Leadership Communication

Gratitude can be quietly transformed when it’s woven into how leaders communicate. A simple note, text, or shout-out can turn an ordinary day into a meaningful one for an educator.

🎬Leadership in action:

• Write one handwritten note of appreciation each week.

• Start your weekly staff email with a “Gratitude Spotlight.”

• Encourage peer-to-peer gratitude; create a board or box where staff can thank one another.

🤔Why it matters: When gratitude is expressed consistently, it builds emotional safety. Staff are more likely to speak up, collaborate, and stay engaged when they know their efforts matter.

As we reflect on gratitude this month, let’s remember that true leadership is about more than managing tasks; it’s about cultivating thankfulness as part of our daily rhythm. Gratitude is a quiet but powerful form of leadership; it reminds us to see the good, name it, and nurture it in others. When we intentionally pause to appreciate our teams, our families, and even the smallest classroom moments, we create a ripple effect of positivity that strengthens our programs from the inside out.

This November, let’s challenge ourselves to not only feel grateful, but to lead with gratitude; through our words, our actions, and the culture we build every day. Because when gratitude becomes a habit, joy follows naturally, in our staffrooms, classrooms, and communities.

Over the next few weeks, we’ll continue our gratitude journey together, exploring teaching gratitude in the classroom, engaging families in gratitude, and creating gratitude as a lasting program ritual. Each step will help us deepen our practice and build a culture where appreciation and connection thrive all year long.

Till Next Time,

Jen Sprafka📋

P.S. Click here for a team building activity that focuses on gratitude🧡

P.P.S. Click here for a family engagement activity that embraces gratitude👨🏾‍👩🏼‍👧🏽‍👦🏼

P.P.P.S. Here is another family engagement activity: Host a “Gratitude Gathering”, where families bring a favorite snack to share, and you read a short children’s book about thankfulness.